Welcome to Thea's Memorial Page
You can find her story
below, but first, please read the beautiful tribute written by Thea's mommy
Jasmin, though the heart of her breeder and first human daddy, John Schoenherr.
Brothers and Sisters of the Great Dane Nation,Again, I call upon you to honor the life of another member of our Clan.
It is with heavy heart that all here stand with honor to the short life of
Thea. Yes, she was but a pup, but a pup who truly knows what love is. She had
a life in which she brought joy to so many. Through my tears I celebrate the
happiness that this young one gave, and the love that she was shown, and gave of so freely.
I also ask that each and every member of the Great Dane Nation honor her
human Mommy, who truly loved her enough to help her on the Journey to the
fields at the Bridge. Let her human Mommy know that the pain will ease, and
not to dwell on the loss, but celebrate the Life.
It is especially hard for me to ask this of all of you for my "Peanut",
She was my Baby.With Love from a Mother's Heart
JasminP.S. Would Tuna, Jake, Gracie, Kira, Beau, Bandit, and all those who have made
the Journey please take care of my Baby until the Day of Reunion comes.
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December 13, 2000 - What a bleak day for all of us. Thea was diagnosed today at the vet with Megaesophagus. I am adding a new page dedicated to learning more about this terrible disorder. There are certain breeds of dogs, including Great Danes predisposed to megaesophagus. Please, read her story below as posted to CyberdaniacsINTL egroups and then visit this this page and educate yourself on the symptoms and ways of early detection -
Posted on 12/13/2000
I spent my day with three different veterinary hospitals and on the phone
with the
University of Penn, hoping someone would give me a different answer...
Hoping
someone would be willing to do something to help her. The answer was the
same
with everyone I spoke to... no surgery, only maintainance. Her prognosis
is poor.
The vets feel that she will live with proper care for another 1-2 years.
Death is
eventually caused simply by malnutrition. Not from neglect, but from the
inability
for the food to reach the stomach.
The esophagus will continue to worsen over time. They encouraged me to
bring
her home, love her, care for her, hold her and take lots of pictures. They
told me
I would know when it was time. I need to have her euthanized when the time
comes so she doesn't starve to death. Oh god! I feel so helpless.
There is nothing I can do for her but what I am already doing. Nothing
that will
guarantee a long and happy life for her. This is one of the worst days
of my life.
I'm sorry I didn't post this sooner today, but I have been unable to see
through my
tears. Please pray for me and for my girl. She was so happy today... so
bouncy
and full of life. Please pray that I can keep her happy and healthy for
as long as I
possibly can. Please pray that this horrible feeling of guilt and helplessness
will
ease so all of the rest of our days may be happy ones. Thank you all for
being
there for me. I don't know where I would be without all of you.
Big hugs from us,
Erin Spangler, Member of CyberdaniacsINTL
12/14 Update:
Times for tears are over. Just because the vet handed us all a emotional
bomb
yesterday, someone forgot to tell Thea. Thea is here, she is happy and
her usual
bouncy self. Thank you all for your wonderful thoughts, prayers and words.
They
have meant a GREAT DEAL to me and I am sure to John and Lisa as well. I
spoke
to Lynnie [from DOGLOGIC.com] last night and it was Lynnie and Thea herself
that
made me "wake-up" today. I can sit around and cry, or I can fight and keep
her
healthy for as long as I possibly can. Some day, many years from now, I
will kiss an
old, grey muzzle goodbye. But that is not now, not today. There have been
many
changes here already and there will be many more. I am switching Thea to
Back-to-Basics. It is a more nutrient-dense food than she is eating now.
I purchased
"Nutri-Cal" to add to her food until we can switch her completely over.
I bought a new, larger food processer to prepare her food to the proper
consistency, my ancient blender was just not cutting it. She is now eating
off a
step-stool of sorts. She places her feet on the bottom step and eats off
the top. This
keeps her entire body vertical while she eats and makes the most of gravity.
With
fingers and paws crossed, she did not regurgitate AT ALL after her meals
today.
I will be ordering N-zymes, to help facilitate her body to utilize every
ounce of
nutrition it possibly can. I am also in touch with a woman who practices
homeopathywith her dogs and will be looking into some natural remedies
to assist
her as well. I know and have spoken to a canine nutritionist. The day might
come
when kibble no longer helps Thea and then we will be devising our own menu
for
her. I am in touch with a few people who have had dogs with mega that lived
long
lives. They will be my new best friends over the next few months.
Thank you again
to everyone who has offered help and support during this time.
Please keep John, Lisa, Thea and I in your prayers as it will be a long
difficult
climb. But also remember, this lil girl has spunk! She would have never
survived
from the beginning without a will to live. She still has that same drive,
and John,
Lisa and I will make sure that she keeps it. I'm sure that there will be
days that I
need to lean on you, my online family to keep me strong. But I am certain
that we
can do this together!!!!!!!
Hugs, leans and slobbers from us!
Erin, Tiny and THEA!
Update: On December 22, 2000, I made one of the hardest decisions I have
ever made. I sat and held my baby as she went to the Rainbow Bridge.
Her
Megaesophagus had progressed to the point that she was uncomfortable each
and every time she ate. She is now running and playing with all the
other much
loved fur-babies that have gone on before her. The time has come, not to
mourn,
but to celebrate her life, her happiness, and her love.